One of the most common complaints that many people have in regard to
goal setting is that they are just too busy to find time to set goals. We
become too consumed by our work and then by our responsibilities for our family
that we get little time for personal enrichment of any kind. All these are
valid points but if you are going to live a prosperous life you have to learn
how to use situations that you consider to be obstacles as motivation and not
as excuses. As a family, we have our individual goals, we have our family goals
and our business goals. And they are posted within our home so we can keep
track.
At first, it was a little uncomfortable sharing our individual goals
with each other. I think it had more to do with fear of not accomplishing the
goal because now others are aware of your goals and they can hold you
accountable. There is joy when you come together as a family and set goals and
it is even more gratifying when you accomplish those goals. If your goal is not
important to you or if it is not something you deeply want, you probably will
not achieve it. On the other hand, if your goal means everything to you, there
is no excuse on earth that can stop you from accomplishing your goals. Goal
setting should be fun, exciting and S.M.A.R.T.
Specific
Most people have goals to get promoted, earn more money, improve
relationships and the like, but these are very vague goals. To be specific, you
need to include the full details of your goals. Write down something like,
"I will be promoted to President of my company by (date)" "I
will run a 5k in an hour" or "I will grow my relationship with my
spouse by going on a date every week." Include the names, the position,
the amount, the date and everything else needed to train your mind to start
working toward that goal.
Measurable
Goals need to be measurable so that you can keep track of how well you
are doing. For your business or job, you can include specifics such as the
number of hours you are working, the amount you are earning, the staff you are
managing, etc. For the goal of attaining more money, you can include details
such as the amount you want to earn, save or the number of assets and
investments you want to attain. Always have important points and items to be
measured so you can understand how close you are to achieving your goals.
Attainable vs Realistic
It is OK to set goals that would stretch you outside of your comfort
zone. Make sure you set objectives that you can reach within a given amount of
time, provided the current resources and capabilities you have. Some goals can
be achieved faster compared to others if you have the right tools and
strategies already in place. Always include a strategic plan for big
objectives.
Time-Bound
Set "lifelines" to achieve your goals. We don't like the word
deadline, we prefer "lifeline". Stay specific when setting timelines
and schedules. For example, indicate things like "To spend at least 1
uninterrupted hour talking positively with my spouse every day starting
tomorrow (indicate exact date)". Setting the exact time and date will spur
you to start working on your goals, instead of putting it off for another day
and procrastinating. Some goals can take years to accomplish so it is wiser to
break these down into smaller objectives complete with lifelines.
Put these strategies to work and watch you accomplish your goals with ease. You are worthy of achieving your goals so always remember to be S.M.A.R.T while getting them done.
Article Source by Hasheem Francis

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