In this article, I am going to talk about the dangers of lacking
financial and values education which are just as important as our school
education which mainly and still focuses on theory and academic score having
read and understood the books by Robert Kiyosaki like Rich Dad Poor Dad as well
as watching all videos of Eben Pagan on what it takes to succeed in business,
relationships, wealth, and improving all areas of life as his subscriber and
customer which is in contrary to what we have been taught and conditioned to
think and do by our parents, grandparents, and teachers.
Truth being said, most of us only think of making money for ourselves,
families, and loved ones if we are married and have kids without understanding
that in order to make money, we need to give and deliver value to others which
is just as important. That also ties in with what Zig Ziglar said that you can
have everything you want in life if you give enough people what they want in
life. The only knowledge we have is that we have to study hard to get good
grades and qualifications so that we can get great jobs with high pay in order to
have our homes, marry, retire, and live happily ever after. While our parents -
especially those from low and middle-income families - told us this out of
concern, this sort of mentality is sadly outdated in the current 21st century.
And even more so with digital technology looking to shape and change the way we
live, study and work.
A rich parent - for instance, the current US President Trump - will never
tell his children that. Sure at first glance, they will tell their children to
respect others in public and tell them off if they are disobedient and do not
behave. But behind closed doors of their homes only known to family members and
maid serving them, they will share with the other things that poor and average
parents will never share with their kids.
Which is while making and saving money is important, delivering value
and smart investing to maximize it are just as important.
According to Eben Pagan in his YouTube videos, he said after years of
studying business and wealth, he learned two critical things. One is that
people do not like to give away their hard-earned money without getting any
value in return. When I say value, I am not talking about anything that sales
and marketing people offered them. But what people really need and want for themselves
and loved ones. The second is that money has a hole in its bucket and unless you
know how to earn, you will lose every dollar you spent never mind on what
things.
Here is another truth of life that I discovered after my very own study
and research on other articles and blog posts besides reading and watching
videos by those gurus. That is money is never given or distributed evenly all
the time. It is only for those who delivered the most value as in helping and
making a difference to others' lives as well as those that others feel closest
to. Even if it is otherwise, most people will squander on things they like
short-term but are not essential long-term. Especially luxury items such as
cars, condos, gadgets, and jewelry to name a few. And when they spend all
their hard-earned money with little or no savings, they will usually resort to
those things.
1. Taking on 1 to 2 part-time jobs on top of their main one just to be
able to cope with the daily expenses and support their family.
2. Borrowing from families and friends,
3. Asking for loans from creditors, loan sharks, and banks,
4. Applying for credit cards,
5. Gambling in casinos, lottery, and sports betting
While there is nothing wrong with the first though it might put
additional stress on individuals' health and well-being, there is everything
wrong with the other four which I myself was guilty of in the second and
fourth.
Because every time you borrowed, you needed to pay back as we Asians
have a very strong ethnic and principle on it. If they are not carefully abided
by, tragedies may occur. Not just on individuals who cannot pay back and lose
everything but their families as in their parents, parents-in-law, spouse and
children as well.
And the saddest truth is when the family is poor, the spouse has to
work or take an extra job as well to bear the costs and the children will have to
give up their passion, interest, and even studies just to work early to copy
with the family burden costs.
For the rich, it is another story. Suppose if one or both your parents
are running the company as bosses or CEOs, you will be required to help them
out upon completing your studies.
Otherwise, they will be judged as "selfish and unfilial who only
think of themselves, inconsiderate and uncaring about their families' well-being."
That is if they want to pursue their ambitions, interests, and passions
they once have as children but are dismissed by most parents as a naive child
words, play, and who are just asking them what they like to be when they grow up
simply to make fun of them.
It may sound weird to you but that is the situation in my country
Singapore.
This explains why most people are conditioned to study hard, work hard,
save hard and retire comfortably with just one working job income they see as
honest earnings.
Any income incurred outside are dismissed by baby boomers in particular
- as a fraud from cheating other people of their hard-earned money which is
partially true with some entrepreneurs but it is wrong to dismiss every
business owner because of a few rotten eggs.
Given the fact that government supports them because they are our
pioneers, very little room is given for youth development not just in terms of
creativity and innovation but in terms of money and wealth management be it
creation, multiplication, and preservation.
The only things they know are saving, working, and borrowing money as
well as buying insurance policies from financial advisors who may or may not be
acting in the interest of their clients.
Hence their ignorance, overspending, and not earning enough leads them to
be over-dependence on the government to the extent of asking more and blaming the
government when things are not going the way they expected and wanted. That
will cause serious implications on our economy and society well-being in general
be it relationships and the daily essentials of life we, our families and
future generations need.
I don't mean to sound arrogant but if I am in the shoes of Minister for
Education, I will make financial education compulsory as one of the main
subjects. Especially when it comes to generating, growing, and saving money
while still acting in the interest of others as in giving value.
Which most people need to know but in actual truth, they don't which is
absolutely critical.
Except for a selected few.
Like Warren Buffet, Donald Trump, Robert Kiyosaki, and Eben Pagan I
earlier mentioned.
Credit: Amuro Wesley